20 FACTORES PARA UN MATRIMONIO EXITOSO

  1. Casarse para toda la vida: haber tenido claro que el matrimonio es para siempre.
  2. La entrega total al otro cónyuge en la vida diaria: contar desde el principio con que habrá dificultades y que se pueden superar poniendo los medios.
  3. Ser consciente de que el amor no es un hecho cumplido en el momento de la boda: es algo que se construye cada día, es una conquista permanente. Hay que recomenzar siempre, reestrenar el amor cada mañana, evitar “acostumbrarse” a vivir con el otro cayendo en la rutina. El verdadero amor sabe inventar, sabe renovarse con creatividad.
  4. Utilizar recursos para mantener la relación en buen estado y prevenir posibles conflictos: hablar a tiempo, reconocer errores, saber disculparse, saber ceder (”dar el brazo a torcer”), llegar a acuerdos, ofrecer actos de desagravio, etc.
    Amor humilde, no autosuficiente, que se deja formar y ayudar, que sabe aprender.
  5. Contar con las ayudas sobrenaturales propias del matrimonio cristiano, que facilitan cumplir los deberes conyugales y superar los momentos difíciles.
  6. El buen recuerdo de unos padres que se amaban de verdad como esposos.
  7. Un buen noviazgo: trato personal, diálogo, sinceridad, conocimiento y respeto mutuo; orientado a un posible matrimonio.
  8. Ver siempre al otro cónyuge como lo primero o prioritario en la propia vida; darle atención preferente sobre otras personas e intereses.
  9. Ser feliz como efecto de hacer feliz al otro cónyuge; vivir para hacerle feliz.
  10. Compartir experiencias, problemas, estados de ánimo. Interesarse por las cosas del otro. Saber entrar en su mundo. Contar con el otro al tomar decisiones.
  11. Expresar abiertamente los sentimientos venciendo posibles falsos pudores y el miedo a confiarse totalmente en el otro cónyuge.
  12. Ser amigos además de cónyuges.
  13. Admirar al otro y mostrarle que se le admira.
  14. Aceptar y querer al otro como es, sin pretender cambiarle o adaptarle a la propia forma de ser.
  15. Convivir como personas que se quieren: sinceridad (no tener secretos con el otro), confianza, comprensión, respeto, buenos modales, delicadeza en el trato, saber callar, saber escuchar, no decir siempre la última palabra.
  16. Buscar un rato cada día para estar los dos solos y conversar. Disfrutar de la íntima compañía. Hablar de todo y pasarlo bien juntos. Crear situaciones agradables que sean materia para los buenos recuerdos.
  17. Cuidar cada día los pequeños detalles que hacen más grata la vida al otro.
  18. Resolver los conflictos en el día; no acostarse reñidos; dar el primer paso para hablar; saber reconocer errores, pedir perdón y perdonar.
  19. En los enfrentamientos apelar a los buenos recuerdos y recurrir al buen humor, que desdramatiza los problemas y ayuda a ver la realidad por su lado más favorable.
  20. Saber ajustar y afinar la relación amorosa ante los sucesivos cambios que, con el paso del tiempo, se van produciendo en la vida conyugal y familiar.
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lo que escribiste... habrá que ponerlo en práctica, no? 

 saludos

Julietita ;)



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pero vale la pena intentarlo, como decía en uno de los consejos, es un trabajo diario e insisto, nada fácil.

cariños,

Nadia.

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Creo que el punto nº 8 es un atentado hacia el desarrollo personal, de cualuqier integrante de la pareja, ya que muchas veces se tandran elegir entre ciertas situaciones donde uno uno decide priorizar no a la pareja sino actividades de enriquecimiento personal. O tu nunca lo has hecho... Considero que estas 20 consejos son demasiado ifdeales y no responden a la realidad, si el mundo fuese así todo seria muy distinto.
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Me parece muy bueno, como cristianos debemos esforzarnos por que nuestro matrimonio, pueda ser un éxito y poder con el ser de ejemplo a nuestros hijos, y conocidos, teniendo conciencia de que somos beneficiados con una relación exitosa.

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FACIL PERO TENGO OTRO CONCEPTO DEL MATIMONIO QUE ME DIRIAS

 

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yo pienso que mientras alla confiansa entre anbas pareja y respeto.... esto es un toque de amor para la esencia  de la felicidad y bueno mientras estes lleno de fe hacia nuestro unico salvador jesus el nos dara todo lo que nesecitamos para ese matrimonio completo y felis ....  bendigo a todos lo los que han echos sus comentarios   en el nombre de jesus ..

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Hola muchas gracias por el articulo es muy interesante y completo y sobre todo es de mucha ayuda... puff cuantas cosas que hay que tener en cuenta y cuidar para que una pareja siga siendo solida y unida no? no suena dificil de conseguir pero claro el dia a dia y su rutina muchas veces descuida mucho ...

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Es una gran bendición tener una persona especial a nuestro lado, a veces ofendenos y no nos damos cuenta del daño que provocamos y lo ideal es pedir perdón y tratar de no repetir ese error ya que estamos perdiendo "TERRENO" en nuestro matrimonio y provocamos que el amor se marchite cada día, caso contrario, debemos de cuidar nuestro matrimonio y cultivar el amor todos los días.

Yo estoy enamorado de mi esposa y cada día es una oportunidad para demostrarle cuanto la amo y hacerla sentir lo importante que es para mí, personalmente este tema me ayuda a saber como tratar a mi esposa la cual amo con todo mi corazón y es una bendición muy grande para mi vida.

 

SALUDOS!!!! 

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